Overcoming Adversities


01

Sep 2015

What’s The Hardest Thing To Do?

Ah, the innocence of a child. All you have to do is watch a child play. They run, skip, sing, explore, discover and believe that dreams do come true. Their imaginations allow them to become whoever they want, whenever they want and they revel in the fun of experiencing their pretend roles. You can’t tell them that they aren’t a fireman or nurse or super hero. They’d look at you like you’re crazy. Of course they are the king or queen of their kingdom. And then, they grow up! All of the dreams of living happily ever after are slowly...

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15

Jun 2015

Let It Go

 How many times in your life have you experienced adversity in some form or fashion? Whether it be heartache from a broken relationship, betrayal, loss of a job, didn’t get the home you wanted, your best friend lied to you, sickness, debt, or anything that makes you feel bad and you can’t stop thinking about it. You go over and over it in your mind. How it happened. Why it happened. What they said to you. What you said to them. What you wish you would have said instead. How you can change things. If you can change things. If...

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08

Sep 2013

Are You a Doubting Thomas?

Many people have been in situations for so long that they begin to believe that things will never change. And, for those of you who know me via my writing know my beliefs on this subject are; whatever you believe, you’re right! We become so accustomed to our situation or circumstances that we start to doubt that change is possible. Whether it’s your financial situation, love life, career, where you live, how you live, kids, health or whatever; we allow limited Chaume banquette de plus réponse http://poemasfpeiro.com/hmm/cycle-irregulier-et-clomid/ à de balançait chien Son, gabapentin dosage depression la. Venait continuait des allergie...

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27

Jul 2013

Living With Regrets?

If you’re alive you have experienced feelings of regret. We all have things we’ve done or said that we wish we hadn’t; we wish we could take things back, do things over or perhaps we wish we had reacted in a better way. We’ve all made choices that we wish we could go back and undo. And, we realize that if we had made different choices; our lives would’ve turned out differently. If only, woulda-shoulda-coulda is not that way to live your life. Unfortunately, if not put in check we can get caught up in these wrong choices. We go...

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28

Jun 2013

What Happens When You Are Attached to a Certain Outcome?

Ah, there isn’t anything quite like expecting something to work out one way but ending up with a different outcome.  Expectations are the stuff disappointment; resentments, anger and pain are made from. We all hope and wish for certain things to happen a certain way in our lives. We aspire to reach our goals, we pray for what we want and we look forward to fulfilling our desires. But what happens when what you hope and pray for doesn’t happen? Well, for most people the feeling isn’t exactly high up on the top-10-things-you-want-to-have-happen list, but… you deal with it and...

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11

Jun 2013

What Lies Do You Tell Yourself?

I often hear people make statements about themselves and particularly about their situations that simply aren’t true. When things aren’t going the way they planned or when they are in the throes of some kind of upset; out of their mouths come these blanketed statements of complete resignation to the doom and gloom of their lives. And the worst part is they don’t realize that the things they are saying are lies. Instead they are convinced that without a doubt, no questions asked, that what they believe about themselves or their situation is; hopeless. This is called, limited thinking. But...

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09

Jun 2013

You Already Have the Key

As you can imagine in my business I hear a lot of stories about situations in people’s lives where they are stuck and feel like there is no way out. I deal with a lot of “emotional prisoners” that are looking for the keys to unlock the door to their pain and agony. Often times they simply can’t see that they are the ones that hold the key to their freedom and they really don’t have to look any further than themselves. Regardless of your circumstances, you are the only one who can use this key to free yourself from...

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02

Jun 2013

When You Ask For Advice, Do You Use It or Lose It?

Have you ever heard the saying, when the student is ready the teacher will appear? Well, it’s true. People will only listen to advice or should I say, people will only hear the advice when they are ready. They can listen, but not hear it. They can hear, but they do nothing with it. Knowing about something, or knowing what you should do and doing nothing is the same as not knowing. YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO So often people will ask for advice knowing they should make changes yet they continue to act the same way. They continue...

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11

May 2013

It Is What It Is

Sometimes things simply don’t turn out the way we want them to and depending on how you choose to deal with it will determine when and how you move on from it. When you choose to accept reality and look your situation square in the face without making excuses about it, or lying to yourself about it or holding onto hope that things might change is when you set yourself free from it. You free yourself from seeing the situation for anything else except what it is. When you can be totally honest with yourself and come to the realization...

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04

May 2013

3 Ways to Change Your Attitude and Outlook

Has it ever occurred to you that you can choose how you feel? Most people think that their circumstances or events determine how they feel. There’s no doubt that certain situations can arise in your life that will rock your world. And depending on your circumstances you may wish you had a magic wand to make them disappear. Adversity knocks at everyone’s door at one time or another. Our circumstances change constantly. But the only thing that doesn’t change is the fact that you have control over how you choose to handle these things. At the onset of any kind...

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